You dont see it, dont you ?

And u will never see it right ?

Why do I see, in most cases, including this, friends or other people, to be more precise, friends who really care about you as in really for your own good, well being, life, future, everything is able to see your pain and what ur going thru inside of u instead of your bf or gf. or ok most prolly bcuz they are the ones who are causing it, so too busy to handle the situation, they dont realize the damage that they are doing to their partner.

they are the ones who can spell it out for u without u telling em actually. they will come and approach you and tell u the reality of your own life instead of urself. mayb bcuz ur too stubborn or too stupid or too blind to act notice even the smallest, littlest thing in life. they are the ones who realize the chaos that is happening in urself without u actually knowing it. they observe you without u noticing. they act as if they dont give a damn about u, but in their ignorance, they actually care for u very, very much.

i dont understand how one can love someone so much, but without any basis. u promise the moon and the stars but u cant even ace ur exams. whereas the other party is way better than u, and can survive without u and can do way better without u. sometimes ur just an obstacle, u think the other party is a robot that u can control with a remote control ? u treat someone like shit and expect that someone to treat u like a king. get some reality check.

the worse part is u dont see it at all. u dont realize it. u think u know everything, but u know nothing. if u think u have insecurities and problems, have u thought about the other party ? what that person has to go thru everyday, just for u, just to be with u, fighting a war that is raging in herself ? and it gets worse day by day. u dont see that, dont u ? u dont see that she has to fight with herself, knowing that theres so much better things outside there for her if shes not with u rather than getting sick and tired everyday with a person like u who is not trying anything at all to make life better. and u blame her for searching somebody else just to make herself feel better and telling her she is selfish. u dont see that everyday, everybody is telling her to leave u for her own good. telling her to be selfish just to save herself from u. u will never see that. dont make her feel like giving up. dont make her question herself, after all that shes going thru and has done for u, is this what she gets out of you ? whats the point of her wasting her time on someone like you ?

all u see is she mingling around with other people. all u want is ur wants, ur needs and nothing else. she, not caring about u. she, not focusing on u. she, not doing good enough for u. everything is not enough and u with your own words and dramas. are u good enough for her ? are u enough for her then ?

who are you to make such a person to feel that way?